We who have never experienced genuine emotional communication in our upbringing, so we could never believe that other people would ever be interested in our emotions.

We who have never experienced genuine emotional communication in our upbringing, so we could never believe that other people would ever be interested in our emotions. 

Which causes us a lot of loneliness. But only after we trusted our feelings and tried to share them, did we discover that there are people who do communicate in this way. 

This is very new to us, because all my life we have only experienced communication based on our “mask”, our“facade”, our “false self” and we could only relate to other grandiose people, because we didn’t want to be abandoned by them.

And we thought that this was really normal.